Me

Abstract:
I’m a 44-year-old curmudgeon, born and raised in North Carolina, seasoned and cured by thirteen long years in San Francisco, and now back in my home state, married and living in domestic bliss and studying to become a librarian-archivist. I spent most of the 1990s in rather entertaining cloud of nicotine, booze, road trips, and random sex (some of which is documented on this very site). I spent the rest of my time working at Kinko’s, designing websites, and trying to avoid “gay culture”, whatever the hell that is.I still take road trips and have sex, albeit not random sex, but I don’t smoke or drink anymore. I write about old supermarkets and update my LibraryThing instead. Some would say I’ve become bland and boring, to which I’d respond “yeah, so?”.
Basics:
- At A Glance: Most of what you need to know about me.
- Bio: Some history.
- Pictures: I rarely smile for the camera.
Details:
- Practice Makes Perfect — Social Interaction and Me: 26 November 2005
- 100 Things About Me: Added 27 September 2002.
- Parallel Streams: The Man I Love: Added 5 August 2002.
- Sex, Love, and Relationships Revisited: Added 12 May 2002.
- The Ideal Personal Ad: Updated 23 September 2001.
- Where I Live: Updated 28 December 2006.
- Where I Used to Live: Updated 29 July 2005.
- Where I Used to Live Before That: Updated 24 January 2003.
- I Love My Mom: Added 9 May 1999.
- On Being a Hermit: Added 18 April 1998.